So, birth mother called yesterday to let us know she is is 4 cm dilated. She is not in labor yet.
Also, she wants us there in the room during the birth.
Also, she wants to meet before she gives birth.
Also, her due date has been moved up twice to the 24th and now the 15th and NO ONE FROM THE OTHER AGENCY THOUGHT IT WOULD BE GOOD TO TELL US ANY OF THIS INFORMATION!
Hello......
Also, her agency is acting like we have weeks and months to wait.
Also, they still have not sent us the financial paperwork or any paperwork. Nor will they discuss any of that at any length with us on the phone.
Also, they have not sent us the a prenatal report since Octobers!!!
Hello! A BABY IS ABOUT TO BE BORN!!!
Also, they are not a choice!*
*A special shout out to Clementine and JPP!
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4 comments:
HELLS YEAH, that's not a choice! Sorry the other adoption agency is so fucking stupid, but I'm glad the mom is being really cool to you guys and I'm so excited!!!
She's not a birthmother. she's an expectant Mother. Until that TPR is signed, you need to respect her as such.
Hey Hashbrown, is that your first mean comment? I agree with Anonymous' point, but s/he could have been a lot more polite in making it.
Anyway, thanks for the shout-out! That agency is *definitely* not a choice. In fact, they're all a bunch of asseyes. I can't imagine why they wouldn't give us those updates except that they think Ariana's "hysterical." WTF??? I wanna kick their asses. I'll show them "hysterical." Shit.
Hello Anonymous, I hear what you are saying and agree with you. However, I used the term birth mother in this instance because that is how the expectant mother has identified herself many times in our conversations. My wife and I are well aware that until she signs the termination of parental rights, that baby is hers and she is the mother. We fully respect her choice and will support her to make that decision freely when the time comes.
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